People make sense when we understand the stories they’re living inside.
We all bring histories into our intimate relationships.
Our families.
Our previous relationships.
Our wounds.
Our hopes.
Our fears.
Our bodies.
Our assumptions about what love is supposed to look like.
And sometimes we don’t even realize we’re responding to an old story while believing we’re responding to the person sitting in front of us.
Therapy gives us a chance to slow things down.
To become curious about the stories we’re carrying.
To understand the patterns we’ve inherited.
And to begin writing something different together.
I work with:
- Monogamous relationships
- Ethically non-monogamous relationships
- Polyamorous relationships
- Queer relationships
- Kink-informed relationships
- Relationships across gender, sexuality, culture and other differences
- People who are dating
- Long-term partnerships
- People deciding whether to stay together
- People figuring out what their relationship needs to become
Your relationship doesn’t have to look a certain way to belong here.
We might work together around:
Repeating conflict・Emotional disconnection Communication ・Attachment patterns ・Infidelity and betrayal ・Rebuilding trust ・Sexual and physical intimacy ・Differences in desire ・Non-monogamy and polyamory ・Kink and sexual communication ・Jealousy ・Boundaries ・Separation and uncertainty ・Major life transitions ・Family and parenting differences ・Trauma within relationships ・Resentment ・Difficulty feeling heard or understood ・Relationship anxiety ・Premarital work ・Deciding whether and how to stay together